people who get offended by this stupid stuff should just deal
2006-09-09 25213, 2006
dholmes
I don't think that's a very effective way to maintain a community
2006-09-09 25201, 2006
dholmes
If you were, say, running a store, and one customer called another a "nigger piece of shit", wouldn't you kick that person out?
2006-09-09 25255, 2006
flamingcow
nope
2006-09-09 25211, 2006
dholmes
That's... interesting.
2006-09-09 25221, 2006
dholmes
I suspect you're in the minority with that viewpoint, though.
2006-09-09 25241, 2006
BrianG
i'd probably say something
2006-09-09 25257, 2006
BrianG
but if they were buying my junk i'm not going to make them not buy m y junk
2006-09-09 25210, 2006
dholmes
BrianG, even at the expense of the other person?
2006-09-09 25219, 2006
BrianG
depends what the other person is buying i guess
2006-09-09 25229, 2006
flamingcow
to take offense is the choice of the receiver
2006-09-09 25225, 2006
dholmes
That's true
2006-09-09 25231, 2006
juhae
Hmm.
2006-09-09 25245, 2006
dholmes
That doesn't mean it's unreasonable for the community to reject such attitudes, though
2006-09-09 25227, 2006
BrianG
reject all you want, but do it without destroying the store.
2006-09-09 25239, 2006
dholmes
Sure
2006-09-09 25204, 2006
dholmes
But I think the potential damage to MusicBrainz by allowing such people to stay would be much greater than the potential damage from kicking them out
2006-09-09 25206, 2006
dholmes
Note that I'm not saying MB needs to do anything about thedcm specifically; I doubt we'll even see him again
2006-09-09 25213, 2006
juhae
I suggest waiting a few mods more to see if he's a new mikeroach or not
2006-09-09 25218, 2006
juhae
before rushing into any conclusions
2006-09-09 25223, 2006
dholmes
Certainly
2006-09-09 25235, 2006
dholmes
I don't think there should be any rush to ban anybody
2006-09-09 25253, 2006
dholmes
I just don't think it's unreasonable to ban somebody if they're causing a serious disruption to the community
2006-09-09 25234, 2006
Freso
dholmes: What if the other person doesn't seem to be offended at all?
2006-09-09 25245, 2006
BrianG
it's so serious that no one had a problem until they googled his name and saw something he said.
2006-09-09 25247, 2006
dholmes
Then I don't see a problem
2006-09-09 25250, 2006
Freso
dholmes: (Re: your store scenario.)
2006-09-09 25256, 2006
dholmes
Oh
2006-09-09 25203, 2006
dholmes
In that case he'd have to go either way
2006-09-09 25211, 2006
dholmes
Because entire communities react to that sort of thing
2006-09-09 25228, 2006
dholmes
Well, I guess it depends if they're causing a scene
2006-09-09 25258, 2006
dholmes
If somebody was shouting racist things in, say, a large supermarket, they'd have to kick them out no matter what, because if they don't they risk losing far more customers
2006-09-09 25233, 2006
dholmes
If it was just one person speaking to another and the other didn't seem to have a problem with it, then I'd just ask them to stop
2006-09-09 25202, 2006
Freso
I'd never kick someone out because of fear of losing customers. I'd be more than happy to kick someone out if they offended someone else without just or reason.
2006-09-09 25222, 2006
BrianG
who cares what someone said in a store 24 hours ago?
2006-09-09 25236, 2006
dholmes
Freso, if you aren't afraid of losing customers, you wouldn't stay in business for very long ;)
2006-09-09 25251, 2006
BrianG
why stand around the store saying "someone said suchandsuch here yesterday"?
2006-09-09 25256, 2006
BrianG
do something better with your time
2006-09-09 25240, 2006
dholmes
Sure, if it's just yesterday
2006-09-09 25250, 2006
dholmes
But that's up to the customer being offended
2006-09-09 25202, 2006
Freso
dholmes: Well, I never intended to open a store in the first place. :) I just think some ideals are not worth giving up just to please the capitalistic system.
2006-09-09 25224, 2006
dholmes
That is a pretty unusual ideal
2006-09-09 25229, 2006
dholmes
But whatever floats your boat
2006-09-09 25239, 2006
BrianG
yeah.. whatever :)
2006-09-09 25249, 2006
Freso
dholmes: Why?
2006-09-09 25256, 2006
Freso
dholmes: Read what I said again?
2006-09-09 25259, 2006
Freso
"I'd never kick someone out because of fear of losing customers. I'd be more than happy to kick someone out if they offended someone else without just or reason."
2006-09-09 25212, 2006
Freso
Esp. the "I'd be more than happy ..." part.
2006-09-09 25244, 2006
dholmes
Okay
2006-09-09 25220, 2006
Freso
dholmes: I didnae say I wouldn't kick out customers who behave wrongly, I just don't want to base it on fear of losing customers, but rather on morale and ethics.
2006-09-09 25237, 2006
dholmes
And that's great
2006-09-09 25248, 2006
Shepard` joined the channel
2006-09-09 25250, 2006
Freso
Okat, thedcm in the chat didn't seem to be so bad, apart from the one message from the URI given before.
2006-09-09 25239, 2006
dholmes
ersonally said he was offended by the one message
2006-09-09 25222, 2006
dholmes
I do think it would be a good idea for there to be some sort of understanding where the line should be drawn, though
2006-09-09 25253, 2006
Freso
dholmes: I wouldn't ban him before talking to him, asking him, about it.